Bridesmaids in charge. Groomsmen: bring cash and dignity you can spare.
We're getting married
Tea in the morning, ten courses at night, one very loud family.
Our story
Two families, two languages, and one agreement reached early: the tea ceremony matters most to them, the party matters most to us, and there is a whole day for both.
A friend's karaoke birthday. He sang badly on purpose; it worked.
At her grandmother's kitchen table, after asking her first — in Cantonese, badly rehearsed.
Door games at dawn, tea by ten, and a banquet that runs to midnight.
The celebration
Bridesmaids in charge. Groomsmen: bring cash and dignity you can spare.
Elders first, in order. We will guide you; nobody is expected to know.
A short bilingual service — every word said twice, once in each language.
Ten courses. Pace yourself: the suckling pig arrives fourth, not first.
On your real site, guests only see the events they're invited to. Times and venues become proper schedule fields in your builder.
Gallery
Try your own photos — they stay on your device. Real uploads (with approval before anything goes live) happen in the builder.
Travel & stays
Closest to the banquet and the train line straight into the city.
Better for families who want a kitchen and a second bedroom.
Registry & dress code
Red packets are traditional and very welcome — but your presence at the tea ceremony means more than anything in an envelope.
Dress code: Banquet formal. Red is ours for the day — please wear anything but white or black.
RSVP
Sample form — on your real site, every reply lands against the right household in your guest list, with meals and plus-ones attached.